Valentine’s Day is a holiday that celebrates romantic love, yet it is typically dreaded by almost all of us, singles and couples alike. The pressure to find the perfect gift is daunting, no matter what stage you are at in the relationship. Sure, you could get your lover something cliché, like flowers or chocolate, but why not try something sexy, thoughtful, and adventurous? Something that will actually enhance your love for each other through experiences. A gift that keeps on giving, so to speak.

It’s time to embrace your sexuality and spice up your love life. Whether you’ve been with your lover for decades or only just started dating, there is always more to explore in the bedroom. And before you go off and think that sex is too risqué to talk about – pause. It’s 2018. Sex is vital to any relationship and has been scientifically proven to enhance your happiness and intimacy with your partner. More sex = less stress. Facts.

No matter what stage you are at in your relationship, if you’ve had sex, then you cannot go wrong with these items. Each one will keep things spicy in the bedroom, and ultimately bring you closer together than ever. And if you’re too embarrassed to shop for them in public, no worries – you can easily order online.

So here we go ladies and gentlemen… Here is my version of the most unique and romantic Valentine’s Day gifts that both you and your lover will enjoy – courtesy of the OG, the legendary – Kama Sutra…

Deluxe A.M. Collab Box

For Kama Sutra

Joe and I hand-selected our favorite Kama Sutra items, which are all included in the Deluxe A.M. Collab Box ($100). Now available on Kama Sutra, just in time for Valentine’s Day.

And remember, when you buy this, you’re really treating yourself too…

Honey Dust

A kissable body powder that leaves skin silky-soft and delicately scented – something both of you will enjoy. My favorite flavor is Coconut Pineapple, which I wear every day and night. The Honey Dust includes a feather duster and is talc free.

Simply irresistible.

Ignite Massage Oil Candle

Ignite your passion and escape to paradise. The Island Passion Berry is one of Kama Sutra’s new scents and we are obsessed because it reminds Joe and I of our time together in Saint Barth. All of their massage oil candles are made with a rich formula of skin-conditioning Coconut Oil, Shea butter and Vitamin E that melts into a warm, luxurious massage oil when lit.

Oil of Love

A kissable, water-based foreplay oil that gently warms on the skin. Just apply to the erogenous zones of the body, lightly blow on the area to experience the gentle warming sensation and follow with kisses, enjoying the sweet flavor.

Aromatic Massage Oil

I’ve been obsessed with this Soaring Spirit scent since high school. It really is the most unique scent and they now they even have them in travel size! This massage oil is made with essential oils to promote deep relaxation. This rich formula makes it a pleasure to give or receive a sensuous, full-body massage. You can pour it into your bath too, or use as a daily moisturizer for silky, hydrated, irresistible skin.